Dont get defensive..those who get defensive lash out and generally wreak unintentional havoc..Get expansive and then you will widen your sight to put things in a healthier perspective before responding and quite possibly at times even save your relationship
Monday, August 24, 2015
Thursday, August 20, 2015
Staying Married-Suggestions,Ideas ,Insights #19
( for every example there are obviously extreme cases)
A marriage is not an opportunity to clone yourself...people without differences lead to numbing uniformity that deadens marriages that started off wonderfully
Get positively excited about the differences between you, learn about them , see the great in them ,expand your comfort zone to include them..they will keep you alive...invite new horizons etc
Those that try and clone eventually remain alone.....those who take their differences and cherish will build a connection that will never perish
Wednesday, August 19, 2015
Staying Married-Suggestions,Ideas ,Insights #18
A daily( or a few times a day) meaningful sms, whatsapp etc goes a long way in showing your loved one that no matter where you are or what you do they are always on your mind. A small gesture..awesome impact
Staying Married-Suggestions,Ideas ,Insights #17
( for every example there are obviously extreme cases)
If you are always" too tired "to do what your loved one needs, likes,enjoys etc you will eventually exhaust the relationship.When everything says"give me a break, you dont know the day I have had etc" but you transcend the fatigue and help ,for you know its not only about your day, you give your relationship a priceless boost and strengthen your bond
Staying Married-Suggestions,Ideas ,Insights #16
( for every example there are obviously extreme cases)
Accept the whole person,each person is a multi-faceted world, accepting does not mean agreeing. Accepting the whole person shows that you will hang on as much as you can to the light even when the darkness rears its ugly head, we all fight our inner wars which at time spill over to the outside.Accept the whole person and your marriage will be real , will be whole, which includes all the parts.For true perfection is dealing with our imperfections together, strengthening our love, injecting gratitude,invigorating renewal..etc and that is just perfect.
Accept the whole person,each person is a multi-faceted world, accepting does not mean agreeing. Accepting the whole person shows that you will hang on as much as you can to the light even when the darkness rears its ugly head, we all fight our inner wars which at time spill over to the outside.Accept the whole person and your marriage will be real , will be whole, which includes all the parts.For true perfection is dealing with our imperfections together, strengthening our love, injecting gratitude,invigorating renewal..etc and that is just perfect.
Staying Married-Suggestions,Ideas ,Insights #15
You love each other , have what you would call a good life, but wish there was more to the marriage, more excitement,more joy,fulfillment etc. Well this is a huge and expansive issue however we can start with the following:
If you are going to continue to do what you have always done you are going to get what you have always got
Get off the recliners of your comfort zone and understand that G-D blessed your union because it is something beautiful,awesome which kisses the Divine,it and you are worth the effort
You are never too old to reevaluate,reinvigorate..your love is not the excitement , the movement , the fulfillment , the joy ...its due to your Divinely blessed love that you work at , invest in etc your marriage because together you can always take it higher to resplendent levels of quality ,feeling ,spirituality, meaningful joy, fulfillment and growth
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